Unwind and Thrive! Why Vagus Nerve Regulation Is Your New Best Friend (And How to Do It!)
- Joy Bartholomew
- Jul 2
- 5 min read
Hey, radiant souls! If you’re over 50 and feeling like life’s stresses are piling up—whether it’s work, family, or just the chaos of the world—this one’s for you. Let’s talk about something that can change the game for your mind, body, and spirit: vagus nerve regulation. It’s like giving your nervous system a warm hug, and trust me, it’s a total game-changer for women like us who want to feel vibrant, grounded, and ready to soak up life’s joy.
So, what’s the vagus nerve, and why should you care? Think of it as your body’s built-in chill button. This superstar nerve runs from your brain to your gut, touching nearly every major organ along the way. It’s the backbone of your parasympathetic nervous system—the one that says, “Hey, let’s relax, digest, and heal.” When your vagus nerve is happy, you’re calmer, your body feels better, and you’re ready to take on the world (or at least that beach walk in Tulum!).
Here’s why vagus nerve regulation is a must for us fabulous women over 50, plus some super doable ways to make it part of your daily vibe.
Why Vagus Nerve Regulation Is Everything
1. Kicks Stress to the Curb: Let’s be real—stress doesn’t get easier as we age, but vagus nerve regulation can help. By lowering cortisol (that pesky stress hormone), it flips your body into “rest and digest” mode. Less overwhelm, more calm. Imagine feeling that way while sipping herbal tea under Tulum’s starry skies.
2. Lifts Your Mood: The vagus nerve is like a direct line between your gut and brain, helping balance those feel-good chemicals like serotonin. Regulating it can ease anxiety and boost your mood, making it easier to embrace personal growth or laugh with new friends at a retreat.
3. Soothes Aches and Pains: Chronic inflammation? Not fun, especially when you’re over 50. A well-regulated vagus nerve dials down inflammation, which can ease joint pain or muscle tension. It’s like a natural reset for your body, perfect for pairing with gentle yoga flows.
4. Helps You Sleep Like a Dream: If you’re tossing and turning at night, vagus nerve regulation can help you slip into deeper, more restorative sleep. Who doesn’t want to wake up feeling refreshed for a full-moon yoga session?
5. Keeps Your Heart Happy: This nerve helps lower your heart rate and blood pressure, keeping your ticker in tip-top shape. That means more energy for dancing at a cultural event or strolling along the beach.
6. Boosts Digestion: Ever feel like your gut’s staging a protest? The vagus nerve supports healthy digestion, so you can enjoy those nourishing retreat meals without bloating or discomfort.

How to Regulate Your Vagus Nerve (No Fancy Equipment Needed!)
Good news: You don’t need to be a neuroscientist to give your vagus nerve some love. These practices are simple, accessible, and perfect for weaving into your daily life—or amplifying during a soulful retreat in Tulum.
1. Breathe Deeply (Like, Really Deeply): Slow, diaphragmatic breathing is a vagus nerve superstar. Try this: Inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4, and exhale for 6. Do it for a minute or two, and feel your body melt into calm. Bonus points if you do it barefoot on the beach, connecting with nature.
2. Get Moving with Somatic Yoga: Gentle, mindful movement like somatic yoga is perfect for waking up your vagus nerve. Unlike traditional yoga, somatic yoga focuses on how your body feels—no forcing yourself into perfect poses. Try slow neck rolls or cat-cow stretches, noticing every sensation. It’s a beautiful way to release tension and reconnect with yourself.
3. Hum, Sing, or Gargle: Yep, you read that right! The vagus nerve loves vibrations in your throat. Hum your favorite tune, sing along to a playlist, or gargle water for a minute. It’s like a mini massage for your nervous system. Try it during a digital detox to keep things playful.
4. Splash Some Cold Water: A quick splash of cold water on your face or a dip in the ocean can stimulate your vagus nerve, thanks to the “dive reflex.” It’s an instant reset when you’re feeling frazzled. Perfect for a Tulum beach day!
5. Connect with Nature: Spending time in nature—like walking barefoot on the sand or meditating under a palm tree—lowers stress and boosts vagus nerve tone. It’s why retreats in places like Tulum feel so magical. Let the jungle and ocean work their healing vibes.
6. Laugh and Connect: Laughter and social connection are vagus nerve boosters. Share stories with your retreat sisters, giggle during a group activity, or simply smile at someone new. It’s medicine for your soul.
Why This Matters for Us Over 50
As women over 50, we’re in a season of rediscovery. Maybe you’re navigating menopause, rethinking priorities, or craving more peace in your life. Vagus nerve regulation isn’t just about feeling good in the moment—it’s about building resilience for the long haul. It helps you stay grounded through life’s transitions, feel more connected to your body, and embrace every experience with openness.
If you’re joining me in Tulum for our Radiant Renewal Retreat, you’ll get to dive deep into these practices. Picture this: somatic yoga under the full moon, breathwork by the ocean, and heartwarming connections with other incredible women. It’s a chance to regulate your vagus nerve while soaking up the beauty of Mexico’s culture and nature.
Your Takeaway: Start Small, Feel Big
You don’t need to overhaul your life to reap the benefits of vagus nerve regulation. Start with one practice today—maybe a few deep breaths or a quick hum in the shower. Notice how your body feels. That’s the magic of tuning in. And if you’re ready to go all-in, come join us in Tulum for a week of rest, renewal, and pure joy.
Here’s to feeling vibrant, grounded, and ready for whatever’s next. You’ve got this, and your vagus nerve is cheering you on!
Namaste,
Joy
P.S. Want to learn more about our Tulum retreat for women over 50? Check out the details reinventretired.com/tulumyoga and let’s make some magic together!
Joy Bartholomew is the founder of Reinvent Retired Travel and Wellness. She is a travel advisor specializing in helping empty-nesters, retirees, and the "50+ travelers" find their perfect vacation, whether it's a new city, country, or continent. She enjoys helping couples, individuals and groups check off itineraries from their bucket-list, and enjoy all of the luxuries and comforts in midlife on a mid-level budget. As a yoga teacher, she works with the same 50+ travelers to improve their health and wellness so they can travel better for longer and enjoy all of life's blessings.
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